As the title is very plain the subject too is utterly delicious and sweet.when I speak of love I confine it to that between man and woman. what could be the definition of love? what is true love? what are the qualities of love? lastly is there love? Well, I define love as the subconscious feeling between a man and a woman kindled by the urge to satiate animal instincts proliferating into the inner conscience and later on surfacing as intimate relationship which when accomplished ignites mututal disregard and utter abandonment .love has certain qualities, which keeps it above all other emotional displays; like love is blind, love is madness, love is irrational, love is emotional , love is spontaneous,love is indifferent,love is arrogant, love is oh,,the list is endless, but all said and done, it is just the same old feeling ...I find it closely linked to the animal instincts hidden in every man , more than that, you can label it as the urge to understand forbidden , and to challenge the restrictions, that is why even eve was tempted to taste the forbidden fruit ,so, that is it.
Let me continue, so far as youngsters are considered they are just overwhelmed and out of sheer curiosity jumps into this rigmarole,without knowing fully well that it is just a mirage, an illusory display by Almghty, so called "maya" which exhilarates and boosts up your gullible mind for a while, and matured people call it infatuation,.well, it does not end there, the bee who tastes the first drop of honey from the virgin flower, goes berserk for a while and it does forget its existence for the time being and like that the young mind temporarily feels that this is the end of the whole universe, and there is no more place to traverse,,,well, he feels elated, rather in a rhapsody,in an enigmatic whirlpool, which loops on and on his conscience, and he floats to the world of nothingness,Let me return from the sojourn, to reality,,dear folks, love is nothing but a transitional feeling every human has to undergo at one point or the other, but it is not all that enchanting as it appears initially, but I would suggest every one of us should experience it at least once, because nobody on earth has ever found a better way of emotional exhilaration, a better choice of serene blissful envigorating, piece of human enjoyment available .Now coming to marriage,what is a marriage, a marriage is the union of a man and a woman agreeing themselves to be faithful to each other and to procreate the next generation, and to contribute something to the society ,upholding moral values as taught,by their religion. It is financial,social and emotional bond, and by default found to be effective in the present social set up.It is not foolproof, as the growing rate of divorce will show. why does the institution of marriage fail, ? have any of us thought loudly on the subject though much has been interpreted and formulated but none found to be the correct answer,Is it the incompatibility of minds, or the social status of the respective partners, or the emotional factor, or the mismatch of the wavelength of the thought process, or any other intrinsic factor, which has never been so far explored?I dont know, but there is some factor which is inherent in every human being the big ego,...the feeling of Aham or self, which displaces all adjustments and throws away the requirement for mutual interdependance which is very essential in any marriage.If the couple on a retrospect becomes aware of the above , I feel that most of the issues could be ironed out. easly.well, it is for the counsellors to break their head on the above subject ,and I am just an ordinary man.I shall come back again with more on the subject, whenever time permits thanks,
ajay2354
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